A Month in Photos {October}

October 2012

October was a busy month!  Anthony was on break from school for 3 weeks and I spent a few days out of town. As a result, our family schedule ended up a little out of whack.  We are getting back into the routine now though!

Finding pumpkins.
Watching the Homecoming parade.
Corn mazes and climbing hay bales.
A week in Iowa with grandparents.
Playing in the leaves.
Celebrating grandpa’s 65th Birthday.
Riding bike.
Decorating pumpkins.
Dressing up as Harry Potter.

Pumpkins {Superhero style}

Anthon carved pumpkins with his grandma when he stayed with his grandparents in Iowa.  To be honest, I think he probably told her what he wanted and then left her to do all of the work!  She definitely put some effort into these!

Didn't she do a great job with these pumpkins?

Ready for Halloween!

Last week Anthony gave his costume a trial run at a local Halloween event.  He’s ready for Halloween!

Break from School {Go-Karts and Superheroes}

Anthony just started back at school on Monday after being on break from school for 3 weeks.  The 45/15 schedule seems to work really well for him.  More about that here.  Anthony spent the 3rd week of his break with his grandparents in Iowa.  This was his longest trip away from home and overall, he did great!  Initially he was bummed because he wasn’t big enough to drive their go-kart.  Then grandpa got a little crafty and worked out a solution….

Pay close attention around 2:30 into the video.

Did you see the wood blocks attached to the pedals so Anthony could reach them?  Craziness!

After spending 5 nights in Iowa, Anthony came home!  It sure was quiet without him at home.  We had great plans to go out every night then we both go sick.  Ugh!  We definitely need to find a couple regular baby-sitters so we can get out more…

When he came home, Anthony brought his grandparents with him and the chaos continued at our house with a little superhero action!

Pretending to be a superhero will never get old!

Adoption {Waiting for the “right” one}

We first decided adoption was right for us when we were on our way home from what became our last appointment at a fertility clinic in downtown Minneapolis. With that decision, the dark cloud of infertility lifted and we were ready to move on to building our family through adoption.  It felt so good to make that decision!  Early on in our waiting period, after our letter went “into the book” for the first time, a teacher I was working with at that time stopped by my classroom to provide me with some words of encouragement.  He and his wife had adopted a few years earlier and he personally knew the angst we were experiencing while waiting for a baby.  That day he told me something that I will never forget.  You will get the child you are supposed to get.  That seems like such a simple statement, but the more I thought about it, the more I hoped that he was right.  I kept thinking about that statement – “You will get the child you are supposed to get” and in some way, it brought me some comfort.  In order to get our child, we were just going to have to wait until the timing was just right.

Summer 2011
Anthony making a wish for a sibling near Lake Superior, shortly before his 5th birthday.

Our wait for Anthony was just 6 months.  At the time, it did not feel like just six months, but considering we have been waiting for over 2.5 years now for #2, looking back, it now feels like just six months.  After we brought Anthony home, I thought again about what my teacher friend had said, “You will get the child you are supposed to get.”  Looking at the little 8-month-old we had welcomed in to our family, I knew he was right.  Over the last 5.5+ years, since we first brought Anthony home, it has been fun to watch him grow and change.  We see parts of each of us within his personality, even without a biological connection.  He has a spunky and silly personality, which is such a blend of the two of us.  He is definitely our son.

I cannot tell you how many times someone – friends, acquaintances, even total strangers - have told me how much my son looks like me.  Many say it’s more than our dark hair.  Usually they comment on our eyes.  I really don’t see it, but he definitely feels like a part of me!  He is my son.



I love how Anthony has picked up so much of our personalities. It has been a little joke in our family that after Anthony has done or said something great, one of us might say, “He gets that from me.” 

My teacher friend was definitely right, we just had to wait, and the child that would join our family would be the right match for us. 



Anthony, I sure hope the right sibling comes along soon for you.  We love you!

Pumpkins!

This weekend we made a trip to the local orchard to get pumpkins. Anthony had a blast checking everything out (especially the corn mazes - yes, more than one!) and of course I enjoyed following him around taking pictures!

On the way to the orchard I was remembering the first time we took Anthony to find a pumpkin.  He was 15 months old and it was such a quiet morning. He wandered around checking out all those pumpkins.  It was perfect!





Unfortunately, it was also a little muddy…



It’s amazing how much fun we can have picking out pumpkins!

Baby Bibs {a handmade gift}

My mom is extremely talented – just give her some fabric and a sewing machine and she can create amazing things.  I have a house full of her handiwork to prove it!

When I need a baby gift, I often call up my mom and put her to work.  When my hairdresser recently had a baby, I knew I wanted to have something special for her.  My hairdresser has been doing my hair for a LONG time.  She is so kind, caring, and giving to others that I couldn’t pass up this opportunity to bring something for her baby.  I made a quick phone call to my mom, ordered a couple of bibs, and I was all set to have a unique, handmade baby gift.

Next time I saw my mom, she arrived with these amazing bibs!

My hairdresser was on maternity leave and I had been just waiting to give her this gift (and have my hair done!), so when I was able to schedule an appointment for last week, I jumped at the opportunity. 

I hope her little girl loves them!

Linking to: House of Hepworths, The Shabby Creek Cottage, Uncommon Designs